“If you are a woman, if you're a person of color, if you are gay,
lesbian, bisexual, transgender, if you are a person of size, if you are a
person of intelligence, if you are a person of integrity, then you are
considered a minority in this world.
"...And it's going to be
really hard to find messages of self-love and support anywhere.
Especially women's and gay men's culture. It's all about how you have to
look a certain way or else you're worthless. You know when you look in
the mirror and you think 'oh, I'm so fat, I'm so old, I'm so ugly',
don't you know, that's not your authentic self? But that is billions
upon billions of dollars of advertising, magazines, movies, billboards,
all geared to make you feel shitty about yourself so that you will take
your hard earned money and spend it at the mall on some turn-around
creme that doesn't turn around shit.
"When you don't have
self-esteem you will hesitate before you do anything in your life. You
will hesitate to go for the job you really wanna go for, you will
hesitate to ask for a raise, you will hesitate to call yourself an
American, you will hesitate to report a rape, you will hesitate to
defend yourself when you are discriminated against because of your race,
your sexuality, your size, your gender. You will hesitate to vote, you
will hesitate to dream. For us to have self-esteem is truly an act of
revolution and our revolution is long overdue.”
Margaret Cho
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While Margaret is pretty darn blunt, she has a valid point.
Society's values are not our values and we need to stop allowing them to define our lives. We are all beautiful, we are all valuable, we are all children of God.
Stop hesitating for fear of what others may think or do.
Do what YOU need to do.